Whether you want to come alone or with a partner, whether this is your first play party or been to a hundred play parties before, whether you have tried some Roleplay before or not, this workshop is for you. All genders, all s*xual orientations, you are welcome.
Doors open at 9:30, we start at 10:00 and will end at 19:00.
Please come before 9:45, so we can actually keep our promise and start at 10:00.
What to expect
This day will consist of two parts: a workshop part around Sexy Roleplay, followed by a s*x positive free flow. It’s a full day event, meaning that you cannot enter the play party without having done the workshop. For both parts count: it’s all consent based. You only have to do things you feel a YES for (or not, if that’s your spiritual practice at this moment ), and never ever ever will we force you into anything you don’t want. Having said that, please continue reading the program.
1 - Sexy Roleplay
Sexy Roleplay: does it attract or scare you?
Good news: this is not about performing or winning an Oscar. It’s about (re)discovering and showing different parts of yourself that you don’t or less frequently access. It is about playing, experimenting and having fun. And not taking ourselves too seriously;)
You might be surprised about the many ways intimate roleplay can be used: for fun, to play with and explore different sides of you, to spice things up in your s*x life or even as a tool for deep inner work.
The aim of this Sexy Roleplay workshop is to give you a taste of different roleplay essentials. We’ll be creating an intimate space to welcome and explore multiple parts of you.
We use the word “roleplay” here in the most open way possible: this is not about a theatrical performance but about playing around with all the parts that are alive in us. No one to impress but yourself.
We will have playful exercises around fucktalk, D/s dynamics, and roleplay. In this workshop part of the day, nudity will not be allowed yet (in the free flow it will be), underpants stay on at all times.
2 - Play Party Free Flow
The second part of the day we create space for a s*x positive free flow; time and space to go freestyle. Try out the tools from the workshop, or not;) Nudity and s*xuality is possible here, you can enjoy being with others in as many ways as you want (consent-based) and put all that you learned during the workshop into practice.
Again, you don’t have to do anything you don’t want. If you want to sit & watch and be a spectator all throughout the free flow, we’ll be cheering on the sidelines. If you want to mingle and let out your slutty side, we’ll be cheering just as hard (note that we’re using the word “slut” in the most positive way one can use a word. If you’re not sure why, we highly recommend the awesome classic “The Ethical Slut” ).
This is for you when
want to explore intimacy & s*xuality and have fun, or want to challenge yourself in a safer space
might feel a little scared, or not. It’s all good, there will be sweet and loving people
have an open mind (or working on it) towards others and yourself regarding intimacy & s*xuality
take responsibility for your own wellbeing. This means that you can always voice your boundaries. We will never force you to do anything.
come as you are: any gender and s*xual orientation is welcome
are single or in a relationship (read the Partner agreements section below)
are older than 18.
This is not for you when
do not want to be in a space where intimacy and nudity is allowed.
are not respectful towards others, cross boundaries or display other behaviour that jeopardizes the safety of the group.
come to “hunt”. Leave any neediness/greediness at home. Instead, allow whatever wants to unfold arise, without expectations.
Partner agreements
Be sure to watch our video on Partner Agreements when you are coming with a partner.
If you come with a partner, come in sync. Discuss whether you’ll do the exercises with others, or only with the two of you. Discuss this for the play party as well.
We strongly recommend discussing boundaries and fears beforehand. Be specific when you talk about it: what specific actions that you or the other might do could be hard for you to experience? Find an agreement that you both feel good about. Be gentle with each other.
What to bring
Don’t forget to bring the most useful thing a sex-positive human being can have: a towel. Preferably a large one. You can be naked on it, dry yourself off with it, maybe even cuddle with it. (The Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy was right all along;)
Wear clothes that make you feel comfortable. If you like, you can bring a sxy outfit as well. Sexy outfit meaning: what do you feel sexy in? Whether that’s your pyjamas, your alter ego outfit or just a string and socks. There will be an opportunity to change clothes for the play party.
A nice lunch for yourself (don’t forget a plate and cutlery if you need them)
Water bottle. No open teacups in the workshop room, a bottle with a cap is welcome.
We recommend some easy snacks for the breaks. Make sure you have enough, workshops can be quite intense.
Nesting if you like (things that make you feel comfortable, like a blanket)
And bring whatever serves you in your sexual expression. Anything from toys to your favorite brand of condoms. (Standard latex condoms, latex gloves and silicone lube will be provided by us)
Tip: Be mindful of your body odour: heavy perfume can be overwhelming for others. Natural, clean scents are the best!
About the location
Distelweg 78, 1031 HH Amsterdam. First door on your right when you cross the parking space (former office of Vital Select).
Free parking in front of the venue. When there is no parking space left you can park on the street for €1,40 per hour, or park your car a bit further away in a free parking zone. See https://www.parkeren-amsterdam.com/noord
Busstop Distelweg is around the corner.
About the tickets
We try to create a balanced group of people regarding sex and gende.
Note: less than 12 registrations means we cancel the event two days beforehand and of course you’ll receive your money back.
--> If you still have questions or insecurities, let us know; we are happy to help you!
We are super excited to see you there!!
Love,
Maxime, Joey, Jeronimo
If you are interested in more
A day before, we host two other events at the same location: Conscious Touch and Impulse Play.
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